March 15th, 2010
I have noticed this since I first developed. I used to attribute it to just being different or some personal reason, but I am wondering if it is more scientific. Not just a type of competition. They want to impute negative personality traits and impose different standards on clothing and what looks okay. Just wondering what you might tell me.Jealousy.I don't think it's anthropological as much as psychological. Some people feel inferior when it comes to things like that and try to put people down to make themselves feel better. The only anthropological explanation is that breasts are attractive to men, as they associate large breast with being fertile. Women can see this as competition and try to make it into a negative to steer men clear of that mating possibility.
Having said that, there are also some times when people cross the line of what's appropriate to wear. If you have large breasts (I do), I don't feel that it's appropriate to walk around in skimpy tops with boobs flying everywhere. I don't want to see it on other people or myself! I suppose it's just a personal opinion though. It's not anthropological, it's sociological.My thoughts exactly, which is why you should set them free!its called Envy
forget anthropologyThey most likely are jealous, however is it deserved. There are women who need, or want attention all the time. And they will casually flirt with most men, even if they are married, or have a girlfriend. Now if you are in a bar of singles, that may be fine, but if you are in a room full of mostly married or attached men, then you are not playfully flirting, you are trying to tease the men, or take away another woman's man. We all know there are times in a relationship when they get into a rut, or have misunderstandings, or some other trouble, and it can be hard to walk away when a woman throws herself at at a man. Looking at it from another side. I would not want my wife, or girlfriend to show her butt, or boobs to other men, by wearing reveiling clothes while we are together, because I know if a man sees a woman flant her stuff, he will check to see if that woman is teasing, or is looking for a connection, either a one nighter, or looking for a new boyfriend. Just like when we speak, we learn when it is approperate, meaning we speak differently in a bar then at church. That is the same as we dress. What are you trying to say to people if you dress like most people dress in a night club but you dress like that most of the time. Eveything people do is for a reason. What is yours? When you answer that you will know when a woman is jealous because she does not have as much as you, or if she is just protecting her own.lol no theyr just jealous noI'm going to give you my theory. If a woman has bigger breast then she is more capable of taking care of children by producing more milk. Women with smaller breast might not be as ample in the baby factory section, thus yielding the natural instinct to breed (with the best looking man) to the larger breasted woman. In today's world, there really isn't a reason for such feelings however, as today what men really notice at first is a woman back side. Yes, there are breast men, and leg men, and hair men, but they all look at buns. So, this is my theory, it seems to make sense to me.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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